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I am Not Your Usual Mediator

Heart Mediation

What is a “Usual” Mediator?

A mediator is a neutral third party who helps parties work through differences and come to important agreements, hopefully agreements everyone feels good about.

You may not be able to work out the tricky areas on your own. The topics are too personal, emotions are too big, and sometimes the wounds are too deep to push through to a solution. This is especially true if someone’s heart has been betrayed.

My Approach

Yes, I will help you come to agreements like any other mediator, but my approach is different. My background as a Relationship Systems Coach means we can tap into the wisdom of the relationship itself. Your relationship has its own needs, wants, desires and wisdom. We can tap into that wisdom, in creative ways allowing for unusually creative results. Our brainstorming sessions can generate ideas that are still in formulation.

Who It’s For

This approach is especially recommended for people who have the ability to consider other viewpoints. High conflict cases may need a different approach.

Discover And Express Your Needs

  • I will help you say the hard things you need to say in a way that the others can actually hear them.
  • You will learn to clarify what you mean and to listen for each others’ needs.
  • You will learn how to take care of each others’ nervous systems so you’re not shocked and jolted and can stay in conversation. This is important.
  • We will identify each of your best possible outcomes and worst fears which then acts as guardrails to guide conversations, holding to best outcome.

Jeannine, thank you again for the space you hold. It has been invaluable to have you present during this time and helping us navigate a huge part of our lives. R&K, CO

This approach...

    • Allows you the time and space you need to explore the far reaching impact of the decisions you will be making.
    • Gives place and grace to discover and express why you want what you want.
    • Uses a needs-based approach. Knowing why you want what allows us to focus on underlying needs.
    • Allows ample time to brainstorm and weigh many options. Not every option arises quickly. Not every option is viable. All options must be weighed in light of your ultimate goals. The best solution may not be the most obvious one.
    • Honors all viewpoints, which allows a solution to arise naturally and organically, becoming obvious to all.
    • Gives you plenty of time for your insides to rearrange and align with your outer world that is also changing.

Your Next Step

I’m happy to talk to you about how Heart Mediation works and what it can do for you. Here’s a link to free 30-minutes on my calendar.