Is your relationship struggling? Will you be better off leaving or staying in your relationship? It’s a big question. There is no foolproof answer of course but we can find out many things to help you decide. We want to know:

• Where is your relationship is struggling?
• Where it is tired?
• Where is it hopeful?
• How much energy the two of you have or want to give it?

Is your relationship struggling? Will you be better off leaving or staying in your relationship? It’s a big question. There is no foolproof answer of course but we can find out many things to help you decide. We want to know:
Is your relationship struggling? Will you be better off leaving or staying in your relationship? It’s a big question. There is no foolproof answer of course but we can find out many things to help you decide. We want to know:

There is great freedom in being completely honest about how you feel, what you want and what you expect, without the promise or expectation of a certain outcome. This kind of honesty is the only way to see if these things you want and need are possible.

If you know you can’t stay in the relationship the way it is. If you are ready to give up on your relationship out of boredom, fear, or an inner compulsion to have something better or different. If you are still committed to your spouse but need some things to change in order to stay in the relationship, or if one of you has already moved out or mentioned divorce and you aren’t sure what to do next, let’s talk. I’ve worked with a lot of people just like you. Heck, I was once just like you.

Most people would choose to stay in their relationship if they knew it could be different/better. They are equally certain that they don’t want the relationship if it is going to be the same ole same ole, and good for them. Who wants that? If you’re ready to explore your possibilities with a high level of honesty, it could be a turning point for you. This kind of relationship exploration is interesting, informative and rewarding.

Exploratory Coaching:

• Identifies needs and wants of you both
• Identifies the damaging behaviors you’ve brought to your relationship
• Identifies your purpose as a couple. What’s your story? Is your current story ending? Is it time to invent a new one?
• Looks at your power imbalances and personality differences
• Utilizes your strengths to make change, manages weaknesses
• Calms your nervous system
• Prompts your self-discovery so you can be your best you whether you stay together or go separate ways
• Is solution-oriented, pro-active and forward-moving

Exploratory Coaching Does Not…

• Promise you will get back together
• Need to know if you want the relationship or not. You may not know.
• Speed through. It takes time to adjust to new information. We will let insights arise naturally.
• Point fingers or focus on blame
• Is not concerned with who did what to whom, but on what is wanting to happen
• Hold an expected outcome
• Take a long time.

• Promise you will get back together
• Need to know if you want the relationship or not. You may not know.
• Speed through. It takes time to adjust to new information. We will let insights arise naturally.
• Point fingers or focus on blame
• Is not concerned with who did what to whom, but on what is wanting to happen
• Hold an expected outcome
• Take a long time.